Sarah, over at Trying to Grok decimates a writer and his letter to Stars and Stripes:
Actually, I know quite a few soldiers who joined “for flag and country”, and I know many who joined just because they wanted a job but end up staying for their country. My husband called the Army a “labor of love” the other day; he could get out and see what other jobs he could find, but he stays out of a sense of purpose and duty.
And, yes, I bet many of them would think you’re a tool.
You probably do indeed lack conviction. Not everyone considers it the Worst Possible Thing In The World to get deployed. Some people, my husband included, think it’s the most important thing they’ve done with their lives, and though they don’t necessarily cherish the thought of deploying for another year and missing out on their own wives’ puppy-dog eyes, they are more than willing to do whatever it takes to see Iraq succeed.